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dominique DiPrima
I’ve been meaning to sit down and blog about marriage equality for months. Es un tema que he tenido una opinión definida sobre el puesto de nuevo en 1997 cuando hice un programa de radio sobre el matrimonio entre personas del mismo sexo y la transmisión en vivo desde la meca gay de West Hollywood. Fue un espectáculo festivo, complete with on air nuptials and free wedding cake for all. I almost got fired for doing that broadcast, after conservative Christian crusaders inundated the radio station with calls for me to be dismissed. Some listeners felt that I was out of the mainstream of African American opinion on the subject and did not deserve to represent us on the mic.
As I often do, I put people on the air who blasted me for my opinion, incluso me acusaron de suprimirlo. Es una de las ironías básicos de programas de radio. Y estoy de acuerdo con eso. Le hubiera dado a Chris Broussard de tiempo aire, a compartir su opinión de que las personas homosexuales no pueden ser cristianos, aunque no estoy de acuerdo con él 100%.
Sabía exactamente lo que el ex Packers Seguridad Leroy mayordomo estaba enfrentando cuando fue despedido de un concierto hablando por su tweet en apoyo de Jason Collins. Y supongo que es la historia de Jason Collins que finalmente me impulsando a que se sentara y centrarse en este tema. Estoy un poco abrumado cuando escribo porque el tema es un verdadero campo minado medios. Así que permítanme romper las cuestiones, como las veo, uno a la vez.
1) Es Jason Collins en un héroe? Se corría el riesgo de perder una lucrativa carrera en la NBA y ser rechazado por su familia y amigos para decir la verdad sobre quién es. Creo que eso es heroico (incluso si había un publicista en alguna parte instándole a ser el primero para que pudiera pasar de "Jason, que?"Para encabezar durante la noche.) Le doy crédito por hacer la vida más fácil para otras personas, especialmente a los jóvenes que están luchando con los problemas de su propia orientación sexual, para abrir camino
2) ¿Estamos hartos de esta historia? No estoy. Pero respeto la gente que está. Lo entiendo. La mentalidad de manada de los medios de comunicación es desagradable. Es la única Collins, o incluso el héroe más importante de mayo 2013? ¡No. ¿Hay un niño en algún lugar sacrificar para alimentar a su hermanita que está recibiendo ninguna atención de los medios en absoluto? Sin lugar a dudas.
3) Why does he have to tell us? I don’t announce that I’m straight! Sounds funny and right on when people say it, but…heterosexuals are the dominant group in this society. You are assumed to be straight unless proven (or rumored) otherwise. In other words you would face no penalty for announcing your sexuality, or even what you did with your girlfriend last night. Collins did get a lot of support and kudos, but it wasn’t guaranteed. And he has also taken a lot of flak. He had to tell us to break down a barrier and help the LGBT (Lesbian, Homosexual, Transgender, Bisexual) community in this country to take a step forward.
4) Why does it have to be a Black guy? No lo sé. But I’m going with this guess. We tend to be more courageous in breaking new ground for human rights and equality. I get that people are not feeling the associations with the feminization or emasculation of the Black man. Or maybe they are just tired of us being the poster boys for everything under the sun. But let’s just go with the explanation that is supported by history, the one that best serves us – we are brave.
5) Why aren’t we giving credit to Brittney Griner the WNBA #1 draft pick who came out two weeks ago? Some say its sexism. But it’s probably because most men are much less threatened by lesbians, than by gay men, and the world of sports (especially sports journalism) is still mostly a man’s world.
6) What does this have to do with marriage equality? The time is now. Public opinion has changed. La gente está lista para que esto sea un problema no. Curiosamente la brecha en la opinión pública es más generacional que racial. Las personas mayores de 40 siguen siendo mucho más probable que sea homofóbica, independientemente de su raza o religión. Jason Collins es otro indicador de que este es el momento en la historia cuando dejamos de discriminación legal e institucional en contra de las personas LGBT. El cambio de actitudes y comportamientos tarda más (mirar el legado persistente de racismo,) pero es hora de cambiar lo que se puede cambiar durante la noche, leyes y políticas.
7) ¿Por qué tiene que ser el matrimonio? ¿No podían llamarlo de otra manera? Como cuestión religiosa, la cuestión de si se permite o no el matrimonio del mismo sexo sigue siendo hasta cada iglesia. Nada va a cambiar eso. Pero, como nación, no podemos escoger y elegir los que se aplican las leyes en que las personas y grupos que no se les dará los mismos derechos que los demás. Si decimos que la gente gay no pueden obtener licencias de matrimonio, debe que también se extienden a las licencias de conducir, licencias de caza o licencias médicas? O bien el gobierno tiene que salir del negocio de matrimonio (lo cual es imposible ya que esta unión espiritual en particular tiene implicaciones legales y financieras que están reguladas por las leyes estatales y federales,) o tenemos que extender los mismos derechos exactas para todos los ciudadanos. Período.
8) ¿Por qué me importa? No lo hago. No me malinterpreten, me preocupo por la igualdad de derechos ante la ley para todas las personas. Y me siento feliz de vernos como una nación en movimiento más allá de la homofobia y el odio! But is same sex marriage on the top of my list of priorities? Not at all. Todavía, I had to write this because it seems to be top of mind for many people who are not directly impacted by it. Maybe a better question is: why do you care? If you don’t like it, don’t choose it. You are still free to worship as you see fit, teach your children as you choose and avoid your (homosexual) cousins wedding. Maybe it’s time to let it go and spend your energy feeding some hungry children or volunteering to read to kids at a local school – I’m just saying…
This blog is dedicated to my godmother, the late Audre Lorde the pioneering Black lesbian poet. It is dedicated to my sister Shani Baraka, who inspired many young women to strive for greatness, and be themselves. She died too soon. It is dedicated to my stepfather Alan Marlowe, who loved me unconditionally before he succumbed to lung cancer accelerated by HIV. It is a thank you to my dear (late) friend Eric Nash (AKA “Miss Kane”) who would never have let me stay engaged to Jason Collins cause his “gaydar” would have been beeping like crazy. This is a testament to my late godfather Roberto Clemente who fought for love and respect for all people of good character regardless of race, gender or sexual orientation. And it is for you, for your lesbian auntie and your flamboyant choir director. It’s for your boyfriend on the down low and your favorite stylist. It’s for the Black superstar who we keep shoving back in the closet. Si nos, Negro Latina, have a special issue with the LGBT community, it’s time to take the blinders off, come out of denial and practice unconditional acceptance. It’s time for us to leave the judgment to God almighty, and practice brotherhood (& sisterhood) right here, ahora mismo. It’s time to choose love. Un amor.
Mayo 5, 2013 en 4:41 pm
“Es Jason Collins en un héroe? He risked losing a lucrative NBA career and being rejected by his family and friends to tell the truth about who he is.”
First off he’s a veteran who has been in the league for twelve years, desde 07 has been with 5 teams. The guy is a journeyman on his way OUT OF THE LEAGUE! Where is the risk in that?! Come out as a rookie or in your Prime then talk to me about risk! He might not be in the league next season.
Mayo 6, 2013 en 7:00 al
The fact that this homo agenda has gained momentum and seemingly more widespread acceptance in this country is not AT ALL surprising to me. As you know.our country was founded in iniquity and hypocrisy where DIVINE law and the PRINCIPLES of righteousness are concerned. So it comes as no surprise that this SIN is being legislatively forced on ALL people. The homo lifestyle CHOICE has a legacy and deep history among caucasian people(see Cretan history) and they being the dominate culture are in a position to push this sin into seeming acceptance though the whole concept of homo”sexualidad” is really impossible. You see sexuality can not exist or be DEFINED between the sex organ and digestive(es decir. mouth or anus..Fecal intecourse or PAP ingestion) system but under this global white supremacist dynamic we should expect that even natural law should be turned upside down and inside out. You homo’s and sympathizers love to remove morality from this equation and argue that it’s between two consenting adults and isn’t hurting anyone and blah-blah-blah-blah-blah! Well if morality is out then ANYTHING goes like INCEST. What’s WRONG with two consenting adult blood relatives (your father and you maybe,your son and you??? think of the possibilities!!!) expressing love through sex??? after all their not HURTING anyone!!!! In conclusion,this subject of homo agenda and lifestyle choice is certainly the social issue Du jour POLITICALLY and rightfully so because in the arena of MORALITY (which is the essence of hue-man kinds sense of right and wrong and therefor it’s laws) it is in deed a NON-ISSUE.
Mayo 7, 2013 en 5:50 al
Whatever the sexual orientation of the Jason Collins, is his business. Sin embargo, I feel he is used this heightened social issue of homosexuality to become relevant in the media. I feel that he in “coming out” the a national magazine at a time where is basketball career is diminishing is a STUNT. SÍ, he might be gay, but now he will use this controversy as an excuse for his professional treatment in the near future. Por ejemplo, the minute is contract is not renewed, or another team doesn’t pick him up to play, this now becomes a GAY issue instead of what it is. Whether this man is gay or not, he does not produce numbers! As a player, he sucks. But I have no doubt in my mind that he knows this, and that this stunt was an attempt to obtain 5 minutes of fame and collecting a little bit more money with interviews. Gay or not, his professional career is coming to an end. I just wish that people wouldn’t blame his sexual orientation for the death of his career.
Mayo 7, 2013 en 7:14 al
Es Jason Collins en un héroe? En, he is a White gay Community stooge. If you want to look at heroism in Black sports, there are myriad and better examples. If you want to talk about heroism in Black gay sports, you need to give credit where credit was due: El Sr.. Glenn Burke of the Dodgers was “out” enough for his own tastes. His teammates knew and didn’t care. And he had true friends who loved and supported him. Sin embargo,, he didn’t call himself a “hero”: the definition of a hero. Finalmente, Dominique, on the topic of the State’s budget; being Black and Republican or gay or both; and cleaning up (sweeping) your own front porch (budget deficit) first: All I have to say is that I’d love to run for office, but I have no natural constituency. People are stuck on stupid, thinking that there’s just one way. And that if I’m a Republican I have to be anti-poor or anti-equal opportunity. Or that it I’m gay, I have to be pro-gay marriage and “anything goes”. The very same people who preach inclusiveness are the same ones who are lining their pockets, feasting at the trough in the service of the Party Line. I’d rather that you pay me to sweep your front porch, than sweep my own for free. There’s a difference between “choice” y “Chaos”. My political and economic consultancy, “Colorful People Takin’ Care of Business” website should be up and running by the middle of summer. Don’t follow me, but visit me– and my jacked-up porch full of Colored people with good ideas — at that time.
— Darrell from Long Beach.